It was recently, during the drawn out process of relocating to New Zealand from the UK, that I came across an article which informed me that I was part of a huge migration, and that upwards of 50,000 kiwis (and counting) had chosen to return to these shores over the past few months.

The Man to Man project is a research project I’ve set up to explore the relationship men have with other men. It’s kicking off over the next few weeks, and will be something I’ll be running alongside (and in support) of the programmes I offer in support of mens’ self-realisation; empowerment; and personal and spiritual growth.

The feelings I’ve had since I heard news of her suicide run from sorrow through to anger. And, at the outset, a real feeling of ‘there but for the grace of god.’ I cannot imagine the anguish Caroline suffered, with the pain of the incident which took place compounded by the subsequent hounding by the British media, with every detail reported and voraciously consumed by us, the public.

A few years back, the term 'conscious uncoupling' broke into the public consciousness, courtesy of Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin sharing the process they entered into when calling time on their relationship. No end of flak ensued, and the term rapidly became established within the widely disparaged new-age lexicon.

It’s increasingly clear to me that my purpose is to provide a space for men’s empowerment, embodiment and self-realisation. I’m committed to providing support and guidance to other men, in order for them to make a real contribution in the world, to themselves, and the people in their lives.

A recent spate of personal enquiry led to some dramatic insights and realisations about my relationship with resentment – how deeply it is woven into my experience of the world, with myself, and with other people.